Hi, everyone! I've been reading this forum for the last day or so, just to make sure I don't ask a repeat question. Still, I wanted to come out of the woodwork because even some of the really basic stuff is over my head.
I thought I knew about sleep apnea. My mother has it something fierce. I used to wake her up all the time because she'd stop breathing long enough that it worried me. My maternal grandmother had it equally bad, but she had a CPAP machine. Then my mother remarries and her husband has it, but I've never known him without the machine. The only other young person I know who has sleep apnea is over 500lbs. So I thought I knew. If you had apnea, you had to sleep with a mask and a hose and you couldn't move around much. If you had apnea, you were too fat to sleep like a normal person.
I lost 120 lbs after lap-band surgery. No more high blood pressure. No more "pre-diabetes". I'm still obese, but all those medical issues just rolled off me. Only now, what was formerly a collection of non-weight-related quirks has become disruptive and driven me to have a sleep study, and part of the results indicate that I have "mild sleep apnea". That's tacked on to a larger diagnosis of narcolepsy, but I don't think the two are related. If anyone knows/suspects/opines differently, please share! I am as unversed in narcolepsy as I am in sleep apnea.
My doctor showed me some of my report. I never woke up. I'm assuming that means I never stopped breathing enough that I roused. Aside from my REM bursts, what he talked about were my O2 levels. They dipped down to 89 a couple times and once to 79 before they put the mask on. I'm assuming that's what categorizes "mild" because I can't find any info on diagnostic criteria.
He also said I tolerated the full mask in the study. Of course, after a panic attack using the nasal pillows, "tolerated" doesn't carry a whole lot of meaning for me. Still I asked the tech if I could at least try the pillows again. The less equipment and drugs and interference the medical world has in my life, the better. Considering my current medical problems, I'll settle for a slightly less cumbersome mask. That leads me to my first question:
How long should I give myself to get used to a setting, a mask, the machine, etc?
Some people are saying a month. I don't have a month. I feel miserable now. My mother, her husband, my grandma, my friend, all said they felt better immediately and would never go off the machine. And it's not just waiting to feel better. I actually feel worse.
I haven't slept through the night in 3 nights. I never have problems sleeping. Ever. While I'm waiting for insurance to approve the narcolepsy medication, I'm on inadequate medication for the daytime sleepiness. So further complications to my sleep are not being "tolerated" very well. I also despise sleeping on my back, but if I sleep on my side or my stomach, the mask shifts and leaks. So I wake feeling stiff and uncomfortable and slightly panicky. And with a glorious headache. I've also been congested since using the CPAP machine. The day after my sleep study, I was stopped up all through the daytime nap test. I've also had nasal and chest congestion every day since receiving the machine. I was thinking it could be because spring is here, but I've never had allergies, and I don't believe in coincidence. I'm also waking feeling bloated. Because of my lap-band, I'm more prone to feeling some tightness in the mornings anyway, but it's been exaggerated lately so that I can't even drink my breakfast shake until I've been up about 4 hours.
So has anybody had these kinds of experiences starting out? Do they go away? How long does it take? Is there something I should try to adjust with the machine? Is there something I should adjust about myself? If my apnea is mild, is it likely to go away if I lose the rest of my extra weight?
Is there anybody here who has experience with narcolepsy and CPAP? Lap-band and CPAP? Being 25 and CPAP?
Between the interrupted sleep, panic, body aches, headaches, congestion, and bloating, I think I'd rather just have apnea. The very idea of CPAP making my sleeping worse seems like anti-depressants causing depression, but I'm determined to stick it out as long as I can. As unsexy as it is to bring someone home and see a Hannibal Lecter mask hanging from my headboard, getting fired for falling asleep at work is even less attractive. I just need to know what direction to go in with all this to make it work.
Aside from all that, is there some sort of sticky post on one of the boards that can explain all these abbreviations and technical terms? I don't see my doctor for another month, and I want to be able to kick this around with him.






