I've read the posts regarding the relationship between apnea and depression, including the NY Times article (http://www.nytimes.com/2005/09/20/health/psychology/20sleep.html?ex=1127880000&en=1b101f325ee37cc5&ei=5070&emc=eta1) and the Stanford University press release (http://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2003-11/sumc-sad110603.php). These all seem to say that the symptoms of apnea are often misdiagnosed as depression.
My question is, what about the other way around?
I didn't show any overt symptoms of apnea until I fell asleep out for a brief moment while driving (!) the weekend after a failed reconciliation with a woman who I had wanted to marry. (Long story, obviously; as for the driving incident, luckily, a friend was in the car, and we weren't on a busy road.) Things were also not wonderful at work, and I had been put on the waiting list for a professional development program that I really thought we be a good thing for me.
I was feeling sleepy at least once or twice a day, and actually fell asleep a few other times, including once during a (admittedly boring) meeting at work.
I went to my doctor, who referred me to a sleep/pulmonary specialist. I had a sleep study, but had a hard time falling asleep there (and when I did, the technician woke me when she replaced a sensor that had come loose, and I had a hard time again). I had a sleep efficiency of 26 percent, and no REM. But when I did sleep, there was about one episode per minute (57 an hour), which I gather is pretty bad.
Then I went on vacation, and when I came back I got into the program. There's even an apparently mutual flirtation with a woman in the program. In short, things are a lot better, and I'm feeling that way. And I haven't been feeling sleepy or falling asleep since I've been back.
I mentioned this at the follow-up appt after the sleep study, but the doctor dismissed this, pointing to the results of the sleep study. (When I mentioned to coincidence of the failed reconcilation and the first overt symptom, he said, "Well, it has to start sometime.") Now he wants me to do a titration study. I think I'm going to insist on a second sleep study first.
But does it make any sense that apnea would come and go, according to my state of mind? I know the mind-body connection is a mysterious thing, but I'm not sure that this isn't just wishful thinking on my part.
Any thoughts are welcome.

