TiffanyAcuff
Joined: 22 Jan 2008
Posts: 131
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Anne,
I know the frustration you are feeling, quite thoroughly. Here are some thoughts.
1. Don't ever feel like you've given up on your child. Unless you are keeping her in a box and throwing her leftovers, you haven't.
2. Moving her back into your bed is a great idea! Isaac does so much better when he is in our bed, although he doesn't like it and won't unless he has already had a bad episode or two in a night. Our pulmo and neuro agree, that co-sleeping is probably the only reason Isaac is alive today.
3. When you are co-sleeping, try and keep her facing one of your faces so you are breathing on her. This will help her body to mimic what it feels. Her episodes will probably decrease in severity..
4. If one doc won't help, get a new one. I have fired a few docs already. Why? Because they see Isaac as "normal", but with CSA, and can't decide what to do with him, so they wash their hands of him and leave us be. Isaac's only consistent doc since 7 weeks old has been his neurologist, whom we adore. We have fired a pulmonologist, a hematologist, a pediatrician and a family doctor. You are the customer and it is their job to make sure you and your child are as healthy as possible.
5. With desats at 84%, I'd be concerned. Keep fighting. Someone will eventually pay attention. It took us an overnight hospital stay to get insurance to approve a monitor, but they did!
6. Has she been tested for reflux at all? Reflux can sometimes cause and/or aggravate central sleep apnea. I would ask for a pH Probe or a GER scan...Do NOT consent to an Upper GI. They will show regurgitation, but not reflux. (Which is what my son's problem was, which we didn't know until 2 months later when we did a GER Scan and it showed very minimal amounts of reflux, where the Upper GI showed significant reflux)
I hope this helps you. Feel free to ask as many questions as you like and vent as much as you need...
Where are you located? Maybe someone can give you recommendations for docs in your area??
Tiffany, mom to a crazy smart 2 year old, who can remember the phonetic sounds to all his letters, but forgets to breathe when he sleeps....
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