Robin,
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If your sleep apnea is severe, as yours is, or even moderate, weight reduction will not likely eliminate the sleep apnea. There's always hope, of course, but I would say that this hope is reserved for only the mildest cases of sleep apnea. So many people of normal weight have sleep apnea. Yes, reducing a weight problem is important and can help make treatment easier for some. But to expect this condition to go away with losing weight is not realistic. And as was said, untreated sleep apnea makes losing weight an impossible task. Cpap therapy can successfully treat your condition, and in the process help you to regain energy, strength and stamina making it so much easier to lose some weight and be healthier. Having untreated sleep apnea is a kind of Catch-22 -- you need energy to lose weight which can give you energy, but you need a certain amount of energy to make it happen. This doesn't mean you will automatically lose weight with cpap treatment (there may be other contributing factors), but it can happen, and much more easily.
It was wrong of your doctor to say that about sleep apnea. This is a real medical condition. It is serious, it is life-threatening. It is a breathing disorder that happens to occur when you're sleeping. Untreated sleep apnea can lead to heart attack and/or stroke and a host of other medical problems and dangers. Before understanding sleep apnea, people simply died or had trach procedures, or suffered a miserable existance throughout much of their life. But now we know what is happening and how to treat it. Some doctors, particularly some of the older ones, do not understand this condition. The sad thing is that they dismiss it as a condition and endanger their patients. Again, this is a serious medical condition, not to be taken lightly.
You are smart to want to know more. Learn all that you can. And feel free to ask all the questions you like.
Linda