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Anonymous wrote:
If not, then I would be able to hold a job through the civil service.
It's not a matter of frowning on anyone, or telling you that you're not entitled to anything. Maybe it's the fault of the military for not clarifying what they call it. I guess to those of us not in the military who listen to someone who is bringing us information stating they're 50% disabled due to OSA, or some form of it, then states, as you did at first, about how you'd work at civil service if the Government didn't give you the disability, but then in the same breath state why not take what you can from the government because they're willing to give it to you. Surely you can imagine how that sounded???
Anonymous wrote:
How am I misusing the system?
The way you made it sound was the problem I think, it's like anyone who claims to be disabled with back injuries like I am, people who can't lift 10 lbs, or bend over even 10 degrees, yet are out mowing their lawns, or cultivating their gardens, or playing football with their kids, or putting a new roof on their home. That is what I'd consider misusing the system, and that's what you made it sound like to us saying "if you didn't get it then you'd work for civil service" .. okay so it was a typo and I have no reason to disbelieve your word! Still so many people do that very thing and personally it sounds a lot like robbing the system that others truly need for the future. I don't begrudge anyone getting disability who truly needs it, but if someone is able to work and just riding disability for the money train and won't work, then that's hurting everyone, including our own country and our children still to come in the future. Can't you see that side of it??
Anonymous wrote:
If I am entitled to something, shouldn't I go for it? If I am eligible for health care, wouldn't I go for it? If I can get the state or VA to pay for me or my kids to go to college, wouldn't I go for it? etc, etc. You get the picture, entitlements and benefits.
I wouldn't even begin to try and tell you that you don't deserve your just earnings from having served our country, but you have to admit you rather flagrantly stated "why not take it if they're willing to give it, and if they don't then I could always work at civil service" .. you made yourself look like you were abusing the system virtually bragging that you could work but why not take what they're willing to give. Isn't that right you said it that way? We could only react to what you wrote, we couldn't read your mind, or guess at what you intended to put there instead. I agree, if you've earned it then use it, if you're not disabled then work until such time you're unable work due to your health issues then you have the disability rating to fall back upon and personally I'm glad you have that? Isn't that only right, isn't that how it should be done?
Anonymous wrote:
If you have a problem with how the VA handles disabilities, write your congressmen. We are just getting what we are entitled.
The last time the Government listened or responded to anything I had to say was when I wrote to JFK in the early 60's and asked for a photograph for my school classroom. Other than that they don't respond, no one does, especially Bush! I'm not picking on the military or the VA, though I do have some issues with them. One issue being that my best friend who died in 1975 from a massive heart attack had been injured by a Japanese hand grenade in WW2, he developed vertigo because the grenade blinded him, it was so bad that he was unable to get out of bed because the dizziness from the vertigo made him fall over. Because he was bedridden he never was able to get up and exercise so he gained way too much weight and the VA did nothing for him. When he passed away from the heart attack the VA instantly denied his wife any future benefits stating his injuries were not combat related, yet had he not been blinded by that Japanese grenade he'd not have had the vertigo issues and not been stuck in bed unable to exercise. He gave his all for his country and they cheated his wife after he passed away. That angers me still to this day.
If you've earned what you've got then I respect that, and I also appreciate your service, you have my thanks for doing so. If you're going to come tell me you have an injury but are still able to work if you want to, but would rather ride out payments from a disability classification instead of working, then I'm probably not going to have a great deal of respect for you. You are what you make of yourself, if you can look in the mirror and be proud of who's looking back at you then that's the main thing. That reminds me of a poem actually, it's a great poem and I'll share it with you ..
The Guy in the Glass
When you get what you want in your struggle for pelf,
And the world makes you King for a day,
Then go to the mirror and look at yourself,
And see what the guy has to say.
For it isn't your Father, or Mother, or Wife
Who judgment upon you must pass,
The feller whose verdict counts most in your life,
Is the guy staring back from the glass.
He's the feller to please, never mind all the rest,
For he's with you clear up to the end,
And you've passed your most dangerous, difficult test,
If the guy in the glass is your friend.
You may be like Jack Horner and "chisel" a plum,
And think you're a wonderful guy,
But the man in the glass says you're only bum,
If you can't look him straight in the eye.
You can fool the whole world down the pathway of years,
And get pats on the back as you pass,
But your final reward will be heartache and tears
If you've cheated the man in the glass.
by: Dale Wimbrow (1934)
Our country is a great place even if now and then we don't like our leaders. We can either support it by being honest and decent citizens, or take advantage of it and steal from it by misusing it to the n'th degree by jumping through every loophole possible to drain our country of money we're not really due yet. I'm not saying you're not due anything personally, but if something is set aside for you in regards to your disability, yet you're able to work, why would that make you eligible for before such time that you truly are unable to work? I don't know you and this last paragraph is just a generalization, but many people do misuse the system, we all know that! It was designed to help those who truly are in need of the help, not as a free ride for loafers who don't want to exert any effort in life to work during their time here on earth. That is what I find objectional.
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SnowCajun
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